tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post4469444698228437130..comments2024-03-13T02:54:30.716+08:00Comments on Part And Parcel Of Life: You Will Forever Be In Our HeartsBalqis DBJhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-79935203033728688022011-08-23T09:47:12.474+08:002011-08-23T09:47:12.474+08:00Thank you so much, Aakriti, for consoling me. I fe...Thank you so much, Aakriti, for consoling me. I feel so much better after reading the sad story that happened in your family. Indeed everything has been destined for everyone of us. Thank you for sharing and for all your kind words. :)Balqis DBJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-40858840378434554602011-08-17T02:04:43.986+08:002011-08-17T02:04:43.986+08:00You know what friend, there are times, when we com...You know what friend, there are times, when we completely feel helpless, whatever may be the reason. And it is at that time when God wants to test our courage and patience! Its very true that when someone is ill and its treatment is going on, we simply say "KEEP PATIENCE, EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE".....but nothing happens. At that moment, those words may seem somewhat healing to us, but what about him who is actually bearing that extreme pain? <br />There is one thing, which i heartily want to share with you Balqis - My own aunt, who became prey of cancer, was undergoing treatment at her last stages. Everybody in our house was praying for her wellness during her every chemotherapy. And after a few months, or perhaps, nearly a year, she had made some miraculous improvement in her and the whole family took a breathe of relief for her! <br />But, suddenly, a worst misfortune occurred, when my uncle(her husband) died suddenly, who was perhaps the healthiest person in our family! He left us, leaving no clues to find out the reason behind his death! The helplessness of my aunty really made me cry! At her age of 70's, and after a big treatment of cancer like disease, she was left all alone, nothing more than endless tears in her eyes!<br /> But that's what life is! You may keep patience, but the thing that is written, will happen by any means! And those who are to leave us, will definetly leave, when their purpose of being on earth is complete!<br />That's the law written in the God's personal diary! So instead of having a sadness of losing someone, we should think it in a positive way, assuming that the person who has left has successfully completed his purpose of life! He has won the exam of life, and hence, being pleased, God has called him to His home!!!!!!<br />I hope, some of my words would have healed some of your pains! So cheer up friend! ...... Be courageous, dont let the pain make you cry....!Aakritihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00871505908397460397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-69750300901747544772011-08-14T16:49:15.924+08:002011-08-14T16:49:15.924+08:00Thank you for your empathy and kind words. You'...Thank you for your empathy and kind words. You're right, the fond memories are kept at the best place - our hearts.Balqis DBJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-39054883280959901332011-08-14T13:45:35.999+08:002011-08-14T13:45:35.999+08:00Hi Balqis, I have never experienced the loss of a ...Hi Balqis, I have never experienced the loss of a loved one, but I could empathise with your grief. It is difficult to lose somebody dear to you, the comforting thought is that the late brother is at a better place now, free of pain and suffering. I believe that the fond memories of the good times spent with your brother will always live in the hearts of his loved ones. May his soul rest in peace...<br />Take care!JoJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17964158291435076102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-30687389626166671672011-08-13T23:18:32.745+08:002011-08-13T23:18:32.745+08:00Thanks for your nice words and hugs. Yes, it's...Thanks for your nice words and hugs. Yes, it's painful but we have to accept the fact that we live in this world "temporarily". Those we lost are now at a much better place.<br /><br />Thank you once again.Balqis DBJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-79637068056688231932011-08-13T20:26:29.782+08:002011-08-13T20:26:29.782+08:00Hi Balqis...I am sorry for your lost. This is a to...Hi Balqis...I am sorry for your lost. This is a touching post. Only someone who has been through the same experience know how painful it is to lose a loved one. The pain though got dimmed as time goes by, it never really leave us. It's always there. Me..myself still struggling for the same pain. <br /><br />But I know you are a strong person and eventually you can live by cherishing their memory and love.<br /><br />Tight hugs for you!Christine L. Andrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17179624692296736780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-23453966707783949632011-08-13T11:52:55.848+08:002011-08-13T11:52:55.848+08:00Thanks a lot, Sie! :)Thanks a lot, Sie! :)Balqis DBJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-54197549294026133232011-08-13T09:01:56.394+08:002011-08-13T09:01:56.394+08:00just passing by sis again and giving you a tight s...just passing by sis again and giving you a tight sie hug *hugggggggggssss*..have a blessed morning :)..and here chocos from quiet angel I'll share it with you to make you smile..✿Sie✿https://www.blogger.com/profile/09052715357717441868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-45720904205379095002011-08-13T08:10:06.359+08:002011-08-13T08:10:06.359+08:00Amin. It seems that the one we love most will alwa...Amin. It seems that the one we love most will always be the one who is "leaving" us first and forever. May be that will make us love that person more beyond what we could express.<br /><br />I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmatNya ke atas roh allahyarham dan ditempatkan bersama orang-orang beriman. Amin.<br /><br />Everything that happenned is just like a dream. Yes, Wan, as if it was yesterday. The love we have for them are still very fresh. Let's be thankful to Allah who had let us spent precious moments with our loved ones who aren't with us anymore.<br /><br />Thanks a lot, Wan. As always, your words really touch me.Balqis DBJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-45375898022592659552011-08-13T07:28:00.846+08:002011-08-13T07:28:00.846+08:00"Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas roh ke..."Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas roh kedua-dua allahyarham dan diletakkan di sisi orang-orang beriman. Amin." ... sharing your prayer<br />very touching, very well expressed "he left for another world"_ that's the saddest words from you balqis. i lost my dearest brother too, more than 20 years ago, but the sadness is very deep, it's like he just left us yesterday...cookingvarietieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10421300454423910663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-84571285151966361002011-08-13T05:35:48.971+08:002011-08-13T05:35:48.971+08:00@Asma - Insya Allah, may it be and thanks for your...@Asma - Insya Allah, may it be and thanks for your thoughts on us.<br /><br />Thanks, too, for taking your time to check out this simple blog and for your nice compliment. No problem, will be at your blog. It has a cool title. May we all be in Allah's blessings.Balqis DBJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-88263461937761399862011-08-13T05:28:42.332+08:002011-08-13T05:28:42.332+08:00@Omo - Thank you for your comforting words. It mea...@Omo - Thank you for your comforting words. It means a lot.Balqis DBJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-32672767922284911052011-08-13T02:35:10.539+08:002011-08-13T02:35:10.539+08:00May Allah grant both of them Jannah & give you...May Allah grant both of them Jannah & give you & your famliy patience...<br />BTW You have nice blog here, visit my blog--> <a href="http://stay-blessed1.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Stay Blessed</a>Asma Khanhttp://stay-blessed1.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-91382868449941876162011-08-13T01:57:56.725+08:002011-08-13T01:57:56.725+08:00Sorry to hear the lose- May his soul rest in peace...Sorry to hear the lose- May his soul rest in peace-Moonomohttp://moonomo.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-86663202520635112052011-08-12T22:36:34.542+08:002011-08-12T22:36:34.542+08:00I agree with you on how loss reminds us the pricel...I agree with you on how loss reminds us the priceless gain. But what we used to have once will be forever kept in the heart.<br /><br />Thank you for your kind words.Balqis DBJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-25724443376193746172011-08-12T21:27:33.298+08:002011-08-12T21:27:33.298+08:00Oh! That is why life is called so strange, so lovi...Oh! That is why life is called so strange, so loving, so precious, cos we have the very heart not to let the genuine love leak away and the very mind not to let the great memories fade away. Loss reminds us of how priceless the gain was. <br />Got moved to hear it. <br />May God be with you all at each moment of ordeal!Suresh Shresthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16413417192360672075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-12988486550268004972011-08-12T17:45:32.227+08:002011-08-12T17:45:32.227+08:00Terima kasih, Peronda. Semoga roh kedua-dua allahy...Terima kasih, Peronda. Semoga roh kedua-dua allahyarham dicucuri rahmat dan diletakkan bersama orang-orang yang beriman. Amin.Balqis DBJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-70564569702986548992011-08-12T17:39:10.632+08:002011-08-12T17:39:10.632+08:00sorry for your lost...takziahsorry for your lost...takziahAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01568569845638034583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-23385158302286039012011-08-12T17:13:10.660+08:002011-08-12T17:13:10.660+08:00Sie, your presence consoles me at this moment of w...Sie, your presence consoles me at this moment of weakness. It means so much to me. Thank you for being here with your caring words and hugs which make me feel better.<br /><br />Thank you so much.Balqis DBJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820944505205109463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-524534005353298280.post-19497536723244360872011-08-12T16:53:25.557+08:002011-08-12T16:53:25.557+08:00I had tears sis reading..
sis in this world we ar...I had tears sis reading..<br /><br />sis in this world we are living many things had made us happy but at the end of our lives the most important thing is how we have given love to the most important persons in our lives..the reason why I have showed love,giving all my best each day because I don't know until when will my life be..I don't want to have regrets in the end that I have not given my all or I was late giving it to someone..<br /><br />I love your quote and it is said perfectly..when I go I want to be remembered not just a memory because it can fade..I want to remain in someone's heart with a smile his face :)<br /><br />the two of them will surely be missed..they will always be a part of your family..not just a memory but because..<br /><br />your father left a legacy..and you are one of them Balqis..he is for sure proud of being your father :)<br /><br />*I just want to HUG you sis..hmmmmmmmmmmmm*<br />..love lots sis..✿Sie✿https://www.blogger.com/profile/09052715357717441868noreply@blogger.com